As an expectant mom, nothing is more fun than gathering a compilation of tiny baby booties, teensy onesies, and all else that goes with your little one’s layette. But instead of the same pre-packaged layette from the same old mega department store, why not personalize your little one’s first wardrobe? Custom baby clothes are easy to make and can set your stylish one ahead of the crowd. There are actually a few easy ways to customize clothing – sans sewing machine - that I’d like to share with you.
Fabric markers are a great tool for making custom baby clothes. Personalized onesies is a pretty easy project, as I found out. I bought a multiple pack of white infant onesies, long- and short-sleeved. Next, I heat set some freezer paper, shiny side facing fabric, to the inside of the onesie on the same front surface I’d be working on. I used water-soluble markers to sketch designs and doodle on the onesie. Next, I retraced my sketches with brush-tip fabric markers. After letting dry, I used a spray bottle to wet and rinse off the water-soluble marker, leaving only my final design, then heat set based on manufacturer’s instructions. Viola!
Fabric stamp pads make great custom baby clothes. Carving your own designs into rubber stamps is a great, fun way to be creative. Or, like I did, you can go with a purchased stamp. Since stamp pads often leave more to be desired with uneven coverage, I used a fabric marker brush to color the stamp pad. Using the same procedure as above, with the freezer paper ironed to the shirt, I stamped designs, words, names and phrases. I then used the marker to fill in light areas before heat setting.
Creating custom baby clothes is a fun project to do at a baby shower, or simply when the nesting phase is in full swing. Don’t just limit yourself to onesies; customize hats, booties, sleep sacks and mitts, too. It does work best on 100% cotton fabric, but always check with the product manufacturer on what they recommend.
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
My Experience with an Epidural
I was pregnant for the first time, and the thought of giving birth terrified me. I had nine months to think about the process, and boy, did I. I watched television shows with real footage from labor and delivery rooms. I scoured the internet for both medical information and personal experiences of what other moms did. I read several books. I was all but convinced that I probably couldn’t handle the pain of childbirth and that I would need an epidural.
My goal was to make it through the childbirth process with as little intervention as possible. I did not want a cesarean section. I did not want to be induced, because I knew (from the many television shows I watched!) that my chances of having a c section were greatly increased following an induction. As for pain control, I considered narcotics until I realized they did little for pain relief but caused additional risk to the baby. I decided that I would attempt to make it through medication-free, but if it got too unbearable, I’d ask for an epidural.
I arrived at the hospital in active labor. After being admitted, a labor check revealed I was five centimeters dilated. I was doubled over in pain, in the fetal position and panting with each contraction. I immediately asked for the epidural. About a half hour later, the anesthesiologist came in to administer my pain medication. I sat upright on the bed, bending over to flex my spine and allow maximum space for the needle insertion. I was a little scared about that long needle coming so close to my spine, but the pain was so unbearable that it overshadowed my fear. About 15 minutes later, and the pain was gone. Thanks to the epidural, I was in a state of relief and pure comfort; I felt great! I was happy, but also sleepy – after all, it was nearly five o’clock in the morning. All went well and I safely delivered my baby boy to the cheers of my midwife and nurses. I was in a full state of awareness and contentment during childbirth. I felt no pain, but I did notice pressure during contractions. My legs and feet were numb, and that feeling took about 3 hours to totally wear off.
As I write this article nearly sixteen months later, I occasionally feel soreness in my spine near the site of my epidural. When I was first cleared to resume exercise, I couldn’t flex or extend my spine too much or I felt pain. This slowly wore off over a period of months, but there is still a small aching feeling there many times after I workout.
We are planning to try for baby number two later this year, and I am strongly considering skipping the epidural this time and going all-natural. While the feeling of pain relief offered by the drugs was great, it did cause me discomfort that I still feel to this day. Then again, ask me when I’m in active labor, and the first phrase out of my mouth may be “epidural, please!”
My goal was to make it through the childbirth process with as little intervention as possible. I did not want a cesarean section. I did not want to be induced, because I knew (from the many television shows I watched!) that my chances of having a c section were greatly increased following an induction. As for pain control, I considered narcotics until I realized they did little for pain relief but caused additional risk to the baby. I decided that I would attempt to make it through medication-free, but if it got too unbearable, I’d ask for an epidural.
I arrived at the hospital in active labor. After being admitted, a labor check revealed I was five centimeters dilated. I was doubled over in pain, in the fetal position and panting with each contraction. I immediately asked for the epidural. About a half hour later, the anesthesiologist came in to administer my pain medication. I sat upright on the bed, bending over to flex my spine and allow maximum space for the needle insertion. I was a little scared about that long needle coming so close to my spine, but the pain was so unbearable that it overshadowed my fear. About 15 minutes later, and the pain was gone. Thanks to the epidural, I was in a state of relief and pure comfort; I felt great! I was happy, but also sleepy – after all, it was nearly five o’clock in the morning. All went well and I safely delivered my baby boy to the cheers of my midwife and nurses. I was in a full state of awareness and contentment during childbirth. I felt no pain, but I did notice pressure during contractions. My legs and feet were numb, and that feeling took about 3 hours to totally wear off.
As I write this article nearly sixteen months later, I occasionally feel soreness in my spine near the site of my epidural. When I was first cleared to resume exercise, I couldn’t flex or extend my spine too much or I felt pain. This slowly wore off over a period of months, but there is still a small aching feeling there many times after I workout.
We are planning to try for baby number two later this year, and I am strongly considering skipping the epidural this time and going all-natural. While the feeling of pain relief offered by the drugs was great, it did cause me discomfort that I still feel to this day. Then again, ask me when I’m in active labor, and the first phrase out of my mouth may be “epidural, please!”
Thursday, April 8, 2010
The Passing of a Loved One: Mourn or Celebrate?
Recently, my grandmother, who has been very ill for the past 10 years, had a massive stroke and entered into a coma. She was on life support and unresponsive. After removing the life support, she stabilized, but she is weak, always sleeping, and will never return home.
All of this came into fruition the week before Easter, which I thought a very interesting time to be contemplating all of this. My grandmother is a believer, so I rest assured in the state of her soul. Praise God that He died and rose from the dead for us! Many people fail to understand the significance of this act, or at least learn to take it for granted. What makes Christianity different from EVERY religion on Earth is that it offers a living hope - a God that is alive and offers life to anyone who wishes. All you have to do is willingly accept this gift! How easy is that?! There are no required rituals, things you can and cannot do. Christ offers the only real hope and offers it freely and unconditionally. How awesome!
Have you heard the saying that we should mourn when someone is born and celebrate when they pass? I think it's difficult to feel this way because we are so conditioned to grieve and mourn at the loss of a loved one. But how better off they are when they leave this Earth! I am happy for my grandmother - who is relaxed and at peace even now as she waits to pass on - and I am glad that she will soon be with God and free of the physical limitations her depleted and sick body leave her in here on Earth.
Friday, March 19, 2010
Motivational Song: It's Your Life
Young pop star Francesca Battistelli tells it like it is with "It's Your Life" from her album My Paper Heart.
Click to listen to song on YouTube
Click to listen to song on YouTube
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Motivational Quote
Holding on to anger, resentment and hurt only gives you tense muscles, a headache and a sore jaw from clenching your teeth. Forgiveness gives you back the laughter and the lightness in your life.
Joan Lunden, in Healthy Living Magazine
Quote from QuotationsPage.com
Joan Lunden, in Healthy Living Magazine
Quote from QuotationsPage.com
Jogging with Baby!
Today I had my first experience with the jogging stroller. I was all fired up and ready to go! I pulled the dusty stroller out of the garage and gave it a good wipe-down, got myself hydrated and fueled for optimum performance, and was ready to head out and enjoy the sunny, near 70 degree weather. I strapped my little one into the seat after slathering him with SPF 50 sunscreen and dressing him in his own workout wear, including Calvin Klein velour hoody to protect his little head from the sun. I stashed my cell phone and keys in said stroller, strapped on my watch, tied up my running shoes, and headed out.
Then, reality hit. This was hard! I consider myself to be in pretty good shape. I typically jog 4-7 miles three times a week. Well, try running with a 35 lb. rucksack and a straightjacket on – that’s what jogging with a baby in tow feels like! Being the determined fitness buff that I am, I would not be deterred. I settled myself into a nice rhythm, albeit a lot slower than my normal pace sans baby, and found myself back in my driveway 40 minutes and a comfortable 3 miles later.
One thing that really did surprise me, other than how challenging this would be, was how much my baby would love it! If your baby likes riding in the car, being pushed in a regular stroller, or being worn in a carrier, he will probably love this, too. My little one sat and took in all the beautiful scenery, all of which was so new to him since this is the first sign of nice weather since he was born. There was a gentle breeze blowing, and that, combined with the rhythm of the stroller tires and the gentle rocking motion as I strolled along, relaxed my little guy and lulled him into a state of half sleep and coma! He stayed in this sleepy awake state for the duration of my jog. Upon returning to the house and giving him a quick feeding, he was down for the count – plus number three!
If you want to jog with your baby, here are a few safety tips to consider before you begin:
1. Protect your baby. This goes without saying. Dress baby appropriately based on the weather. Skin exposure to direct sunlight should be minimized. Make sure your baby is wearing a hat to protect his little head, and sunscreen made for babies and children on all exposed body parts.
2. Inspect your gear. Become very familiar with your stroller before using it. Use according to manufacturer’s suggestions. Make sure straps are tightened and secured properly. Try going for a trial and walking around the neighborhood first, to get the feel of your jogger and to get comfortable using it.
3. Plan your route. Know the distance and the neighborhood you wish to take beforehand. Try http://www.mapmyrun.com Choose a safe location and a well-lit time of day. Choose your route according to ease and convenience; for instance, are the sidewalks well kept and free and clear of obstructions? Is there a convenient jogging path close by? These will make your workout safer and more enjoyable.
4. Protect yourself. Take all the same precautions you normally would when going for a jog outdoors. These include appropriate clothing and gear for the weather, sun protection (including sunscreen, sunglasses and hat or cap), fuel and hydration.
Do not listen to an iPod while jogging! You need to have your full senses about you and be aware of everything.
Wear a watch to time your length away from home, and consider telling a close friend or family member when you’ll be gone and the route you plan to take, in case of an emergency. Bring your keys and cell phone, and even your ID card or Driver’s license, and secure them appropriately in your stroller.
5. Don’t over-exert yourself. Be smart. Exercising with your baby means you have to consider your own safety and health as it affects not only you, but your little one as well. Don’t try to be a superhero and do too much too soon. Build up your endurance slowly and consistently.
6. Don’t get discouraged. If baby becomes fussy, you get tired, or weather doesn’t cooperate, cut your workout short and try again later. The biggest obstacle to getting in shape is consistency. Be consistent, yet flexible, and you will eventually reach your goals!
Then, reality hit. This was hard! I consider myself to be in pretty good shape. I typically jog 4-7 miles three times a week. Well, try running with a 35 lb. rucksack and a straightjacket on – that’s what jogging with a baby in tow feels like! Being the determined fitness buff that I am, I would not be deterred. I settled myself into a nice rhythm, albeit a lot slower than my normal pace sans baby, and found myself back in my driveway 40 minutes and a comfortable 3 miles later.
One thing that really did surprise me, other than how challenging this would be, was how much my baby would love it! If your baby likes riding in the car, being pushed in a regular stroller, or being worn in a carrier, he will probably love this, too. My little one sat and took in all the beautiful scenery, all of which was so new to him since this is the first sign of nice weather since he was born. There was a gentle breeze blowing, and that, combined with the rhythm of the stroller tires and the gentle rocking motion as I strolled along, relaxed my little guy and lulled him into a state of half sleep and coma! He stayed in this sleepy awake state for the duration of my jog. Upon returning to the house and giving him a quick feeding, he was down for the count – plus number three!
If you want to jog with your baby, here are a few safety tips to consider before you begin:
1. Protect your baby. This goes without saying. Dress baby appropriately based on the weather. Skin exposure to direct sunlight should be minimized. Make sure your baby is wearing a hat to protect his little head, and sunscreen made for babies and children on all exposed body parts.
2. Inspect your gear. Become very familiar with your stroller before using it. Use according to manufacturer’s suggestions. Make sure straps are tightened and secured properly. Try going for a trial and walking around the neighborhood first, to get the feel of your jogger and to get comfortable using it.
3. Plan your route. Know the distance and the neighborhood you wish to take beforehand. Try http://www.mapmyrun.com Choose a safe location and a well-lit time of day. Choose your route according to ease and convenience; for instance, are the sidewalks well kept and free and clear of obstructions? Is there a convenient jogging path close by? These will make your workout safer and more enjoyable.
4. Protect yourself. Take all the same precautions you normally would when going for a jog outdoors. These include appropriate clothing and gear for the weather, sun protection (including sunscreen, sunglasses and hat or cap), fuel and hydration.
Do not listen to an iPod while jogging! You need to have your full senses about you and be aware of everything.
Wear a watch to time your length away from home, and consider telling a close friend or family member when you’ll be gone and the route you plan to take, in case of an emergency. Bring your keys and cell phone, and even your ID card or Driver’s license, and secure them appropriately in your stroller.
5. Don’t over-exert yourself. Be smart. Exercising with your baby means you have to consider your own safety and health as it affects not only you, but your little one as well. Don’t try to be a superhero and do too much too soon. Build up your endurance slowly and consistently.
6. Don’t get discouraged. If baby becomes fussy, you get tired, or weather doesn’t cooperate, cut your workout short and try again later. The biggest obstacle to getting in shape is consistency. Be consistent, yet flexible, and you will eventually reach your goals!
Friday, March 5, 2010
Create Balance with a Time Budget
One of the biggest enemies to a balanced life is lack of time, or more accurately, lack of proper time management. We cannot create more time; therefore, we must learn to manage it more efficiently. Much in the same way you might budget your finances, you can budget your time. Want to know if you can volunteer ten hours each week for a homeless kitchen? Wondering if you can take an extra college class this semester? Can you train for that figure competition in the summer? The only way to know is by budgeting your time.
Start by writing down your weekly and daily tasks, in order of importance and from those that take the most of your time to the least. Include a deadline, if applicable. An example might look like this:
Studying - 3 college courses (January 1 – February 28)
Exercising - Training for 10k (April 1)
Work - Home-Based Business
Chores and Errands
Family Time
Church
Sleep (this one’s important – don’t skimp here!)
Next, write out the times you plan to wake up and go to bed. If you work part-time or full-time, block that time out of your schedule. Next, plan the times when you will work on your various tasks, and block out time to spend with family and friends. This is known as “white space” and is very important! We all need it, so don’t omit it. Then, begin allocating time each day for your obligations, again based on the order of most to least time consuming and highest to lowest priorities. Here’s what the above example would look like:
Wake Up: 6:30am
8:30am – Check business email
9:00am - 2 hours college coursework
11:30am – 45-minute run or go to gym
1:00pm – Grocery shopping, cleaners, store errands
3:00pm – 1 hour college coursework
4:00pm – Check business email/work on programs
6:00pm – Cook dinner
7:00pm – Family Time
10:00pm – Bed (read and asleep by 10:45pm)
Write out a schedule like this for every day of the week, or for every day that is different from day one, such as weekends. Monitor your schedule for several weeks and adjust the day as necessary to reflect your accurate schedule.
You’ll also notice from the above example that every second of the day isn’t taken up. This is important to avoid, because not only is it unrealistic and stressful, but it doesn’t allow for any time to be formable in case an emergency or unforeseen situation occurs. Use your white space to pray, meditate, surf the web, watch a little TV, or just relax.
If you have a task to schedule but you’re not sure how much time it will take yet, just do what you would when starting a financial budget: track the time spent for 1-2 weeks, then allocate it accordingly into your schedule.
Tips for sticking to your Time Budget
1. Don’t over-schedule. Include “white space” so you can relax, de-stress and have extra time to be formable.
2. Allocate realistic timeframes in which to complete your obligations/goals.
3. Aim for 6-8 hours of sleep every night. You can’t be productive on little or no sleep.
4. It’s OK to say “no” to people – remember your priorities and stick to them.
5. Make your Time Budget a “living” document. Change it monthly or weekly as needed to fit your lifestyle.
6. Don’t try to be great at and do everything at once. You’ll just end up being mediocre at everything and great at nothing.
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